In the US (and maybe around the world, I just haven't asked anybody in my travels) Wednesdays are referred to as Hump Day. In offices I have worked in, I am greeted on Wednesday mornings with "Happy Hump Day." I now often find myself sharing this greeting with friends and colleagues on Wednesdays. Now my question, why is it called Hump Day?
Is it because it is the middle and believed that after Wednesday things are all downhill? What if you have to work on the weekends, does Hump Day become Thursday or Friday? Maybe Hump Day is in reference to the fact that Wednesdays seem to be the longest day of the whole week! They often seem to be that daunting, unconquerable hump, that you fear you might not get over. So is "hump" the right word? Maybe it would better being "Happy Everest Day" or "Happy Kiliminjaro Day."
Today, I had my first student cry on me. I have never been good with cryers. I recall being questioned in a Fish Camp Director Staff meeting when I shared that with cryers, I just wait til they're done. It's not that I don't feel for them, I just don't see any good in trying to talk to them. I mean really, what can I say that will make things better? If I know them they might get a hug. My ability to handle these situations is about as good as Sheldon's from The Big Bang Theory (if you understand that, you're my new best friend).
I think the absence of sympathy came from the fact that the problems the girl was crying about were problems that she had complete control over. I do not do well sympathizing with individuals whose problems/complications could have easily been avoided with better planning and more responsibility on their part. Her problem stemmed from the fact that she did not update her e-mail (as is emphasized over and over by the college). As a result, she missed important messages from the college, which her failure to respond resulted in her removal from classes. I will acknowledge that this is a sucky situation, but had she done what she was supposed to... well I don't know what I would have to write about today.
Since this is the beginning of my blog, I'll make this disclaimer... I will complain about my job, probably more than most. I do enjoy my job, and find it at times satisfying. At the same time, I do not feel challenged, which leads to the complaining. It is a job, and I am fortunate to have one in the current economic situation. I am having many great experiences here, but I have realized this is not where I want to be long term. Regardless, I like most the people I work with, I enjoy getting to ride a train to work (makes me feel a little greener, a little more urban if you will), and I bring home a paycheck that will some day help me hopefully pay for graduate school.
So here is the close to another day. I've reached the top of the hump, but really... is it all downhill from here? I sure hope not, what will I have to write about tomorrow! Regardless of how you see it, Happy Hump Day... that is if you do not work this weekend.
Is it because it is the middle and believed that after Wednesday things are all downhill? What if you have to work on the weekends, does Hump Day become Thursday or Friday? Maybe Hump Day is in reference to the fact that Wednesdays seem to be the longest day of the whole week! They often seem to be that daunting, unconquerable hump, that you fear you might not get over. So is "hump" the right word? Maybe it would better being "Happy Everest Day" or "Happy Kiliminjaro Day."
Today, I had my first student cry on me. I have never been good with cryers. I recall being questioned in a Fish Camp Director Staff meeting when I shared that with cryers, I just wait til they're done. It's not that I don't feel for them, I just don't see any good in trying to talk to them. I mean really, what can I say that will make things better? If I know them they might get a hug. My ability to handle these situations is about as good as Sheldon's from The Big Bang Theory (if you understand that, you're my new best friend).
I think the absence of sympathy came from the fact that the problems the girl was crying about were problems that she had complete control over. I do not do well sympathizing with individuals whose problems/complications could have easily been avoided with better planning and more responsibility on their part. Her problem stemmed from the fact that she did not update her e-mail (as is emphasized over and over by the college). As a result, she missed important messages from the college, which her failure to respond resulted in her removal from classes. I will acknowledge that this is a sucky situation, but had she done what she was supposed to... well I don't know what I would have to write about today.
Since this is the beginning of my blog, I'll make this disclaimer... I will complain about my job, probably more than most. I do enjoy my job, and find it at times satisfying. At the same time, I do not feel challenged, which leads to the complaining. It is a job, and I am fortunate to have one in the current economic situation. I am having many great experiences here, but I have realized this is not where I want to be long term. Regardless, I like most the people I work with, I enjoy getting to ride a train to work (makes me feel a little greener, a little more urban if you will), and I bring home a paycheck that will some day help me hopefully pay for graduate school.
So here is the close to another day. I've reached the top of the hump, but really... is it all downhill from here? I sure hope not, what will I have to write about tomorrow! Regardless of how you see it, Happy Hump Day... that is if you do not work this weekend.
